‘It Takes a Village’: Why Local Support is Vital in the First Five Years

Raising a young child in London can be joyful but it can also be exhausting, isolating, and expensive. 

For many families, especially those without relatives nearby or navigating life in a new country, the early years can feel overwhelming. As the African proverb tells us ‘It takes a village to raise a child', meaning that raising a child should be a collective effort more than the responsibility of just one or two people.  

The evidence is clear; a child’s first five years are crucial for brain development, emotional wellbeing, and long-term learning. It’s a window of opportunity but one that’s hard to grasp without the right support. Research carried out by the Royal Foundation Centre for Early Childhood found that 'our relationships, surroundings and experiences during our first five years shape the adults we become and the society we create'. 

A study by Early Education for the Early Years Coalition found that there are 7 main things that help a child grow and develop well. These are: how they interact with others, their culture and community, the experiences they have, being curious and active in learning, their emotional health, their physical health, and their own unique way of growing and learning.  

Activities like playing, spending time outdoors, reading and writing, staying active, eating well, and helping kids with communication can all give young families a strong start. It’s also important for parents and carers to look after their own wellbeing. Joining parent support groups or taking part in adult education classes and workshops can help. 

At Coin Street’s Family and Children’s Centre, families can find the support they need to give their children the very best start in life. The passionate team is dedicated to helping every child thrive - and every parent feel confident and empowered. From playful sensory sessions and storytelling adventures to music, cooking, and outdoor fun, the Centre offers a wide range of free or affordable activities that nurture children’s growth and development.  

Families can also benefit from friendly advice, wellbeing support, and adult learning opportunities, all in a welcoming and supportive space. Whether you're looking to connect with others, learn something new, or simply enjoy quality time with your little one, the Coin Street Family and Children’s Centre is here for you.  

“We’re here to help families feel confident, connected and cared for,” says Jane Christofi, Strategic Head of the Centre. “Our sessions are relaxed, inclusive, and designed with wellbeing in mind for both children and their grown-ups.” 

There are dedicated groups for dads, for families with children with special educational needs and disabilities, and one-to-one support for those facing challenges. Whether you’re looking for a friendly place to meet other parents, or advice on routines, sleep, feeding or behaviour, there’s a door open at Coin Street. 

“It feels like home,” says one parent. “My child has made friends, and I’ve met people from all walks of life. It’s a relief to feel supported, not judged.” 

Coin Street’s message is simple: every family deserves support, and every child deserves the best possible start.